Care become Stress

Today I gonna to comment on this because some of my friend are facing on this problem.

Well, have you guys heard before that the more you care, the more stress you would pumped into the person that you cared. Sounds irony, but that is the truth. Many people like my buddy does not know how to adjust the amount of care that should be showered to their love one. Hmm.. I think this should include myself as well.

Care will turn into stress when the person that you are caring, don't even like you (or maybe stop liking you)

Yes, it might be unfair for you who giving your care hoping that the person that you love might be happy but turns out to be vice versa. This is not what you want, neither to the person that you cared. You care for them so much yet can't make them happy, and you'll be surprised that the person that you cared can be so happy by receiving a little amount caring from others. Unfair? Nah.. nobody will be going to feel that for you unless they are standing in your shoe.

My little advice to those who sunk into this situation is, just stop your shower of stress. You will not get the result that you want no matter how hard you try. Just let go and leave them alone. If they need you, they will come for you. (Well, it just my suggestion only... don't follow if you disagree)... :) This same theory goes to "Love cannot be forced"... Just blame your luck to be choosen as the 3rd Party because you can't do anything else besides that.

All of the statement above is just purely my opinion and feeling. Feel free to make some comment on this topic. :)